Category: how to be

“Aspie” Rant: Integrity within Autistic Groups and Networks

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The original start of the title was Master Mind Fu** . . . Which still works. I abide by the philosophy of take what you need and leave the rest behind. I was taught manners and live by the golden rule of treat others how you wish to be treated. I take pride in my… Continue reading “Aspie” Rant: Integrity within Autistic Groups and Networks

30 Motivational Quotes for the Compassionate Misfit to Live By

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30 Motivational Quotes for the Compassionate Misfit to Live By 30  “When you see a good person, think of becoming like him. When you see someone not so good, reflect on your own weak points.” Confucius 29  “We already have everything we need. There is no need for self-improvement. All these trips that we lay… Continue reading 30 Motivational Quotes for the Compassionate Misfit to Live By

Mama Bear

Posted in Aspergers, Aspies, autistic, convictions, feelings, how to be, opinion, opinions, people, relationships, silence, society7 Comments

I recently found my “mama bear!” She’s been hiding somewhere. Out in the way-back country of my psyche, I suppose. She’s awake, and I am not so sure what to do with her. However, I notice these seismic emotional waves generated by an impulse of some sort or another. To be frank, the thought of convictions… Continue reading Mama Bear

Adults share how recognizing autism changed their lives

Posted in Aspergers, Aspies, autistic, book, diagnosis, how to be, identity, neurodiverse, society, spectrum, understanding9 Comments

Yesterday, I asked community members at @Everyday Aspergers, “How has finding out you are or might be on the autism spectrum changed your life in a beneficial way?” And these were the responses. Having ASD has enriched my life in many ways. ~ Kasey I am an adult autistic diagnosis. The joy and excitement to discover… Continue reading Adults share how recognizing autism changed their lives

Unknowns, Boundaries, and Autism: A Reflection

Posted in anxiety, Aspergers, Aspies, autistic, boundaries, communication, emotions, feelings, how to be, life, limits, relationships, self care, traits3 Comments

THIS IS A RAMBLE. For a shorter, more ‘reader friendly’ version, go here To see my brain in action . . . Read on. (There are some comma errors in this. Apologies!) I had planned on working from home today. In fact, I likely “should” be doing that right now. However, I make my own hours,… Continue reading Unknowns, Boundaries, and Autism: A Reflection

Through the Window

Posted in Aspergers, Aspies, how to be, life, opinions, society2 Comments

  We’ve reached a point in society where to detect foulness out of the most mediocre suggestion or statement has become common place. Jokes aren’t safe anymore. Nor is a stance or opinion. The lot of civilization is so busy claiming their stake in the ground that they don’t even notice what (or who) their… Continue reading Through the Window